May 20, 2018:


Yesterday Prince Harry married American Meghan Markle and I couldn't get enough of the royal wedding. What a gorgeous dress, the bride was radiantly beautiful and the church at Windsor - oh my goodness, the flowers alone were soooo beautiful. There's nothing like a good love story to make one appreciate how precious we can be (and should be) to each other.

I'm glad the weather was perfect yesterday for the new Duke and Duchess of Sussex's wedding. I can't say the same for around here. Spring keeps teasing and then going away. This morning I woke up to a "balmy" 47 degrees F outside, rain, damp, and I turned the heat back on! It's May 20th, the heat. should. not. be. on. Period.

Last Thursday, however, was beautiful. I was able to get a goodly amount of yard and garden clean-up done over several days last week. I also took some photos of my flowering tree anchoring the north corner of my house and made the current collage. I think it's an ornamental cherry, and on the the other end of the house, I think that's called a purple sand cherry? I'll have to check that. The blossoms on the tree do not have a distinct fragrance, but the purple shrub that wants to be a tree (despite my hacking it back, back and back yearly - I'm losing, by the way) has myriad blossoms with a distinct fragrance. I can't decide if the scent is too beautiful to bear or too awful to smell, it certainly can be overpowering!

This coming week will be the third cut of the grass this season. We had rain late Friday night and then for several hours earlier this morning. This rain, on top of the rain we had over four days the prior weekend, and the grass is growing like nobody's business! I don't mind doing the grass, though, as long as it's not too hot, too cold, not raining, and not too windy. I'm not picky at all, am I...

I still have a lot of raking out of areas that suffered from snow mold over the winter, and have not yet really tackled cleaning out the north flower bed in the backyard. That will be a chore!

But Memorial Day weekend is coming. This coming Saturday I will be out with a friend (who has a nice large van - goody!) stocking up on potting soil, top soil to fill in never-ending low spots in the yard, grass seed, and lots of plants! For some reason, this spring seems busier than those in prior years. I can't figure out why that is...


Thursday, June 21, 2012

Day from Hell - Mantle Wipe-Out

It started out last week with weather in the mid-80's; and then the dew point slowly crept upward.  They tried to keep it hidden and did not even mention dew point in the weather reports on commercial t.v. until it crept up to 65.  The weather-people neglect to mention that many folks (like yours truly) begin to feel uncomfortable when the dew point rises past 50.  At 60, I am suffering; at 65, I do not even have to move, I break out in a sweat and keep sweating with no relief, except in air-conditioned spaces; and even then, if the air has too much moisture in it, I sweat in the cold!  It's pretty hard not to move for a week, but that's what I've been living through here.  Saturday the temperatures topped out near 90; last Sunday I don't know what the official reading was, which is measured -- get this -- at the airport which sits right on top of Lake Michigan -- but out here, seven miles to the west where I live, it was 94 or 95.  Monday Hell really started heating up -- in the mid to upper 90's with 65 to 70 dew points.

I couldn't sleep, even in my centrally air-conditioned home.  It was too warm and stuffy upstairs, and the sofas and my recliner downstairs aren't made for all-night sleeping although I did use the recliner Tuesday night.  Didn't get a good night's sleep.  Not to mention I toss and turn relentlessly and need my double bed to keep me from falling to the floor, which I've done sometimes when sleeping on one of my sofas! 

A jury would not convict me upon hearing (and seeing my current condition) if I committed mayhem and murder. 

Maybe I was delirious last night from heat prostration.  I woke up several times and had a hard time drifting back to sleep; then, about 3:15 this morning, I woke up and sat up in bed, and for some reason I looked toward the 9-drawer dresser on the south wall and thought I saw something - was that a man?  a monster? - underneath it.  Mind you, that dresser is all of perhaps 6 to 8 inches on its legs from the floor.  There is not enough room for a child to fit underneath, let alone a man or a monster.  And the slowly coming awake rational side of me knew perfectly well there was nothing at all lurking underneath my dresser, except perhaps some dust bunnies.  But the half-asleep me was terrified.  My heart was pounding!  I leapt from the bed with a screech leaving my throat (I don't know if it was loud at all - I meant to scream but usually in such circumstances all that comes out is a little croak because of partial sleep paralysis).  One of my legs got caught up in the sheet, I tumbled out of bed - really close to that dresser with the person or monster underneath it!

Talk about making some Olympian moves!  In a flash I was up, back over the bed, and into the hallway where I turned on the light and then into the bathroom and turned on that light too, and shut the door.  But I did not lock it.  Not that a lock would keep out a monster anyway.  It was some minutes later and I was still feeling groggy and just not with it, but now the after-effects of a full adrenalin rush were catching up with me and I started shaking.  For pete's sake! 

No broken bones - what a relief!  No sprains, either.  Whew. 

I girded my figurative loins, opened the bathroom door, and marched the few steps back to my bedroom.  I then turned on one of my flameless candles -- the biggest, brightest one.  And kept it on all night.  A baby light. Something to chase the boogey-man away.  Because I was scared crapless!  But I was even more tired than scared, so I crawled back into bed, being careful not to look anywhere near that shadowy space between the bottom of the 9-drawer dresser and the floor, pulled the sheet partially back over me, and went back to sleep.

Nice way to begin the day, heh?

I drag myself out of bed at 6.  Terry (the woman who does cleaning for me once a week) comes at 7 on Thursdays.  I had to be ready to greet her.  I go downstairs, feed the birds, feed the squirrels, make my coffee, head back upstairs to start getting myself together.  Get dressed, am in the bathroom getting ready to put on my make-up and attempt to do something with my hopeless hair when I hear a horrid crash bang boom!  OH NO!

Run to the stairs a few steps away.  Look down into the living room below.  The framed map I had resting on the mantle behind safe and secure stops, has somehow toppled over off the mantle, taking along with it a tall candle and even taller glass hurricane candle cover, my t.v., my little lamp, and worst of all, my gold mother elephant, who lost part of one ear in the process.

Shards of glass from the 24 x 36 glassed frame were EVERYWHERE.   TINY shards.  Obviously not safety glass.  I've owned that frame and glass since 1986.

I didn't know whether to scream, or cry, or both. 

Terry found me on my hand and knees with gloved hands picking up shards of glass from EVERYWHERE in the living room.

Let's just say that I went to work with no makeup on and even worse than usual looking hair (since a disastrous haircut that I will NOT talk about).  My blood pressure was sky high so my face and neck were beet red most of the morning.  And it was raining.  But only for 2 blocks, so I had to take the damn umbrella with me.  And I was sweaty, and sticky, and really really hacked off.  Oh, and tired, too.

This is what the mantle had looked like after I took down all the spring stuff and put more sedate elements together, except for one thing:

After the above photo was taken, Mr. Don suggested I move mother elephant to a spot between the t.v. and the map.  And so I did.  I wasn't sure I liked her there at first, but it grew on me after a couple of days and there she stayed after I tweaked her location a little bit and had her angled facing outward about 40-45 degrees from slightly behind the t.v. lapping over the left bottom corner of the map.

I liked it.  I thought it worked as a whole wall look (from the spheris on top of the curio cabinet to the brass plate behind the lamp on the side table).  There were a few bare spots I intended to fill in - and I was working on that.  I ordered a few things...and received them.  Unpacked them last night, as a matter of fact.

And then this happened:

Frame without glass or anything to frame.  The glass that broke was 24 x 30.

Map without a home, now camping out on the wing chair in the family room. 

Bag of glass shards enconsced in the garage.  While doing some touch-up work on the fireplace's latest scrapes and bruises I found some more glass shards tonight, despite careful sweeping and vacuuming by both Terry and I.  Thank Goddess there are no little ones or pets rambling around in the house!  I will just have to remember to wear shoes or my slippers every time I'm in the front room for the next several week,s until I'm sure that all glass has been removed.  Terry and I are still finding glitter from the Christmas ribbon, wonder how long we'll keep finding teeny tiny little shards of glass...

So now, like poor Frederick in Jane Austen's Persuasion, I will have to begin all over again. 

I'm getting a physical tomorrow.  That will seem like a cake-walk compared to today.

Fortunately, the plant I took home from Dad's funeral was safe and secure on its end of the mantle.  And, ironically enough, the short brass candle holder that the pillar candle underneath the glass hurricane cover was resting upon was also still serenely in its place on the mantle.  The framed map took out the hurricane cover and the pillar candle but not the candle holder.  Go figure. 

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